From Oak Trees to Blooming Flowers

Drawing Inspiration from Nature’s Lessons of Growth and Support.

We find motivation in the strangest places in the vast tapestry of life. Let’s find inspiration in the strength and beauty of nature, which can teach us important lessons about our own lives.

Think about the tall, proud oak tree that stands through storms and the test of time. Does Mother Nature throw it away when its stems get tired or its leaves fall off? Never. Instead, she gives it her loving hug, which gives it the essential nourishment it needs to grow again.

In the same way, when we come across people who have fallen or are lost in the chaos of life, we should try to learn from nature. Instead of leaving them on their own, we can reach out to them and give them the power and food they need to get out of their situation.

Just as an oak tree needs sunshine and food to grow, different souls need different things to feed them. Some people may need the gentle touch of understanding and sensitivity, like warm spring rain. Others may want the energising power of inspiration and encouragement, like a fresh breeze that wakes them up.

Some people’s hearts long for the steady presence of direction and mentorship, like how a river flows steadily along its path. And then some people want to change their lives through art and self-expression, like how flowers bloom and add colour to the world.

But what if our good intentions aren’t enough to light a fire in their hearts? When these things happen, we should remember the important lessons nature has given us. Sometimes, all they need is a gentle presence and a calm way of living together to find peace in the chaos. By just being there and giving them our unwavering support and understanding, we create a safe place where their souls can heal and they can find their inner light again.

Dear people who are travelling with us on this amazing trip, let’s get ideas from the wisdom of nature and remember that we have the power to lift, inspire, and change lives. As we reach out to help and feed more people, we become change agents and help create a world where resilience and beauty can grow.

May we learn from the oak tree’s ability to withstand life’s storms, the rain’s ability to make things grow, the river’s ability to show us the way, and the flowers’ ability to show their true colours. Together, let’s celebrate how we’re all linked by planting seeds of inspiration and growing a garden of hope and possibility for everyone we meet.

Which one is correct, “Banginkulu” or “Bangikulu”

The Fight for Xitsonga Authenticity

Introduction

The South African Reserve Bank (SARB) has recently launched enhanced banknotes and coins in the South African market, which became available on May 4, 2023. The new denominations will be introduced incrementally, and they have been equipped with enhanced security features and new designs. The primary purpose of the new banknotes and coins is to provide secure currency and provide the public with an enhanced experience when using them. The Reserve Bank believes that the new designs will help to preserve the country’s heritage and also promote environmental conservation efforts. The new currency has been released in line with the Bank’s vision to provide a world-class currency that meets the requirements of the South African public.

Maintain the heritage? This is not the case for the Vatsonga people. The recent release of new banknotes by the South African Reserve Bank has generated controversy due to a change in the wording of the Xitsonga phrase “Banginkulu Ya Afrika-Dzonga” to “Bangikulu Ya Afrika-Dzonga.” While the spelling change may seem trivial, it has sparked controversy among the Vatsonga people who believe that their language and culture have been disrespected. In this article, I will contend that the correct spelling of “Bangikulu” should be “Banginkulu” and that using “Bangikulu” is a grave insult to the Vatsonga people. In addition, I will contend that the Pan South African Language Board (PanSALB) perpetuates the erosion of the Xitsonga language and culture by promoting the use of “Bangikulu.”

About Vatsonga and Xitsonga in South Africa

The rich and vibrant culture of the Vatsonga people is firmly rooted in their language. Xitsonga is one of South Africa’s 11 official languages and is spoken by millions of individuals. Nonetheless, the language is frequently marginalised, and its cultural significance is frequently ignored. Therefore, any alterations made to the written form of the language are significant and must be approached with sensitivity and respect.

Although Tsonga speakers can be found throughout Southern Africa, the vast majority of them reside in South Africa’s Limpopo Province. The number of Tsonga speakers in Limpopo is estimated at above 2.3 million people. In addition, it is essential to note that the Tsonga language is one of South Africa’s eleven official languages.

Although the speakers of the Tsonga language are frequently referred to as Shangaans, it is essential to note that, according to the Tsongas, the term should only be applied to the Tsonga people of Mozambique.

In addition, it is essential to recognise that, even though the majority of South African languages use the English alphabet, the written Tsonga language is primarily based on the Latin alphabet. Although most of the Tsonga dialects are mutually intelligible, they do have some notable differences. Geographical factors typically account for these differences. This indicates that the variations of the Tsonga language depend on the locations where it is spoken.

Three major dialects comprise the Tsonga language. Xironga, Chihlengwe and Xitsonga are their names. The Xironga dialect is predominantly spoken in and around Maputo, the capital city of Mozambique. Chihlengwe, also known as Xitshwa, is spoken in countries such as Mozambique and Zimbabwe. The final dialect, xiTsonga, is spoken in South Africa. The primary distinction between these dialects resides in their phonological structures.

Which one is correct, “Banginkulu”  or “Bangikulu?

The spelling of “Banginkulu” is consistent with the established Xitsonga language’s orthography and pronunciation rules. “n” is an essential component of Xitsonga words. This is evident in the spelling of other Xitsonga words, including “Gazankulu”, “Hofisinkulu”, “Dorobankulu”, “Hungunkulu”, and “Ntshavankulu”. All of these words refer to non-human entities that are spelt with a “n”. Therefore, it cannot be argued that “n” is only included when referring to humans.

Furthermore, it is essential to distinguish between the spoken and authorized written language concerning dialects. The Vatsonga language has various dialects, and the spelling of words may differ depending on the dialect. In spoken language, the n is occasionally dropped, but the orthography remains intact. However, the orthography of “Banginkulu” is consistent with the written form of the language, regardless of the dialect. Therefore, the argument that the spelling of “Banginkulu” is incorrect because it does not match the spoken language is flawed. In English the word “Mortgage” is pronounced like “maw·guhj”, the “T” is mute but does not mean the spelling must change!

The PanSALB is responsible for protecting and promoting all South African official languages. The Use of Official Languages Act of 2012 mandates SARB to have a language policy and a language unit. However, it is questionable whether the PanSALB has fulfilled its responsibility in this regard. The decision to change the spelling of “Banginkulu” to “Bangikulu” without proper consultation with the Vatsonga people suggests a lack of sensitivity and respect for their language and culture.

Moreover, PanSALB’s reasoning for the spelling change is flawed. Dr Arnold Mushwana, the PanSALB Xitsonga National Language Body chairperson, claimed that the previous banknotes had the incorrect spelling and that the new notes rectified the error. However, the Vatsonga people approved of the old spelling, so there was no uproar. The spelling change is a pure imposition by the PanSALB, an insignificant minute elite, and must be rejected with the disdain it deserves. The members of the PanSALB Xitsonga National Language Body who did not apply their intellect to this may not know Xitsonga and are only there to line their pockets. They are defending the indefensible.

Furthermore, the PanSALB’s explanation that “Bangikulu” is a compound noun composed of two words, the noun “bangi” and the adjective stem “-kulu” to form Bangikulu, does not justify the elimination of the “n” in “Banginkulu”. What in the realm of the Xitsionga language is the word “kulu” in written form? It has no significance! This is because compound nouns can be formed by combining words in a variety of ways, and there is no rule dictating the incorporation or omission of specific letters. Many Xitsonga compound nouns contain an “n” even when they refer to non-human entities. For example, “Gazankulu” (a former homeland in South Africa), “Hofisinkulu” (Headquarters), “Dorobankulu” (Main City), “Hungunkulu” (Main news, topic etc), and “Ntshavankulu” (The main mountain) are all spelt with an “n”. These examples plainly show that the argument that the “n” is included only when referring to a human cannot hold water.

Regarding dialects, the PanSALB’s explanation fails to differentiate between the authorised written language and the spoken language. It is common knowledge that Xitsonga has several dialects that differ in pronunciation, grammar, and vocabulary. The standard written form of Xitsonga, which is used in official documents and publications, is consistent across the Vatsonga in South Africa as extensively spoken in the Limpopo and Mpumalanga provinces. This does not, however, imply that other dialects are inferior or incorrect. Consequently, it is possible that the spelling of “Banginkulu” was based on a distinct spoken dialect or variation of Xitsonga, and that the PanSALB’s decision to change it was based on a limited and erroneous understanding of the language.

The fact that there is now an uproar with the new rendering of “ Bangikulu “ is a clear indication that the Board has lost the plot and maybe they should be relieved of their duties before they do further damage! It also indicates that the Vatsonga people attribute great importance to it. Language is also a dynamic and evolving phenomenon, so what was acceptable or correct in the past may not be so in the present or future. Consequently, consultation is always required. The spelling “Bangikulu” is considered incorrect or incongruous with the current Xitsonga standard form.

In conclusion, the spelling of “Banginkulu” on South African rands notes is the correct written form of the Xitsonga word, and the South African Reserve Bank should reinstate this spelling. The argument that the “n” should be removed because it is only included when referring to a human is not supported by evidence, and there are many examples of compound nouns in Xitsonga that include an “n” even when referring to non-human entities. The PanSALB’s justification that “Bangikulu” is a compound noun composed of the noun “bangi” and the adjective stem “-kulu” is insufficient to justify the removal of the “n”. Furthermore, the PanSALB’s decision to change the spelling without consulting the Vatsonga people or language experts who are familiar with the various dialects of Xitsonga is a major disrespect to the language and its speakers. The PanSALB and the South African Reserve Bank must take immediate action to correct this error and ensure that Xitsonga is treated with the respect and dignity it merits.

The Curious Case of Markus Jooste: Dead or Alive? Contrasted with the Enigma of Thabo Bester

The Curious Case of Markus Jooste: Dead or Alive? Contrasted with the Enigma of Thabo Bester

The “death / disappearance”  of Markus Jooste, former CEO of Steinhoff International Holdings, and the curious saga of Thabo Bester, a convicted felon turned fugitive, have captured the collective imagination of the nation. As the mysteries surrounding these individuals continue to confound both authorities and the public alike, parallels and disparities between their cases beckon us to delve deeper into the enigmatic abyss of their fates.

Markus Jooste’s purported demise, shrouded in ambiguity and uncertainty, paints a portrait of intrigue and suspicion. Reports of his alleged suicide by a self-inflicted gunshot wound on the rugged shores of Kwaaiwater beach have left many questioning the veracity of the claims, particularly in light of the lack of corroborating evidence and the absence of plans for a funeral. With Jooste’s substantial financial resources and extensive network of influential connections, including some who may prefer their involvement remain hidden from the public eye, speculation abounds about the possibility of foul play or an elaborate ruse to evade accountability.

In stark contrast, the tale of Thabo Bester unfolds as a narrative of capture and confinement, with the convicted rapist and killer awaiting trial in prison for a litany of charges. Bester’s audacious escape from the confines of the Mangaung Correctional Centre in Bloemfontein sent shockwaves through the nation, prompting questions about the vulnerabilities of our justice system and the lengths to which individuals will go to circumvent the consequences of their actions.

While parallels can be drawn between Jooste and Bester’s disappearances, such as the utilization of financial resources to manipulate their circumstances, there are notable distinctions that set these cases apart. While Bester’s whereabouts are known, albeit within the confines of a prison cell, Jooste’s fate remains an enigma, with speculation rife about the possibility of his orchestrating his own disappearance with meticulous planning and the assistance of powerful allies.

As the pretrial proceedings for Thabo Bester and his co-accused inch forward, the public remains transfixed by the dual mysteries of Markus Jooste and Thabo Bester’s fates. While Bester awaits his day in court, the whereabouts of Jooste’s body and the truth behind his reported demise continue to elude us, leaving a nation awash in conjecture and intrigue. Until concrete evidence emerges to unravel the labyrinthine mysteries surrounding these individuals, speculation will persist, and the questions will linger, casting a shadow of doubt over the truth that lies concealed beneath the surface.

I find myself devoid of conclusions; instead, I am inundated with questions spurred by the collective inquiries of Mzansi. What is the truth behind Markus Jooste’s disappearance, and why does it remain so elusive despite the passage of time? How could a man of such prominence seemingly vanish without a trace, leaving behind a vacuum of uncertainty and suspicion? And what role, if any, do his vast financial resources and influential connections play in the unfolding drama of his enigmatic fate? Similarly, as Thabo Bester awaits trial behind bars, what drove him to such desperate measures, and what deeper motivations may lie hidden beneath the surface? As I navigate the labyrinth of speculation and conjecture surrounding these cases, I am reminded that in the absence of concrete answers, it is the questions that propel us forward, urging us to seek truth in the shadows of uncertainty.

I am just asking what Mzanzi is asking , reflecting on what they are saying.

CON ARTISTS USE POSTAL CHARGE SMSES TO STEAL HARD-EARNED MONEY FROM SOUTH AFRICANS, USA and EUROPE

Introduction:

In this digital age, scammers and crooks are getting better at trying to trick people who don’t know what they’re doing. SMS scams are a common way for scammers to take advantage of people. This is because more and more people have cell phones. In South Africa, there is a new scam that uses mail-charge SMSes to try to trick people. In this blog post, we will go into more depth about this particular scam. We will also talk about the USPS scam, which is another common scam that targets people in the United States.

How the Postal Charge SMS Scam in South Africa works:

The Postal Charge SMS scam is making news in South Africa, and people who don’t know what’s going on have lost money because of it. The scam works by sending out text messages that look like they are from the post office and say that a package has not been delivered. Most of the time, the SMS says that the package can’t be sent because customs or postage fees are still due. To fix the problem, the message tells the receiver to make a payment right away by clicking on a link in the message. I have personally received this but I knew I had not ordered anything at the time and I immediately noticed that it was a scam as my names were not even included and the sender did not identify themselves. I deleted it without opening it.

The people who click on these links don’t know that they lead to fake websites that look like real mail service platforms. Once the target is on the fake website, he or she is asked to give personal and financial information, which the scammers can then use to commit fraud. Shortly after falling for this scam, some people have said that their bank accounts were used without their permission.

To avoid falling for the Postal Charge SMS scam, you must be careful and take these precautions:

• Check the source. Before you do anything, make sure the SMS is real. You can check if the message is real by contacting the postal service provider directly through their website or customer service methods.
• Do not click on links that look shady. Don’t click on links in SMS messages, especially ones that ask for money or personal information right away. Postal service providers that are legit rarely only send important messages via SMS.
• Be careful with your personal information. Don’t send private personal or financial information through SMS or websites you don’t know. Legitimate service providers would not ask for this kind of information this way.
• The USPS Scam in the U.S. While people in South Africa are dealing with the Postal Charge SMS scam, people in the U.S. are dealing with the USPS scam, which is different but just as scary. This scam takes advantage of people’s trust in the United States Postal Service (USPS) to get them to give out personal information or make payments that aren’t theirs.
• Scammers often send emails or text messages to people claiming to be from USPS and telling them they missed a package delivery or asking for more shipping information. These messages can look very real, with government logos and email addresses that look like they are real. Scammers use the recipients’ interest or worry to get them to click on dangerous links or give out private information.

Keep these things in mind to make sure you don’t fall for the USPS scam:

• Be careful with messages you didn’t ask for: Don’t believe unwanted emails or text messages, especially if they say they’re from USPS. Check to see if the message is real by calling USPS directly through their website or customer service channels.
• Check the email address of the sender: Pay attention to the sender’s email address, as hackers often use fake versions that look a lot like official USPS addresses. Look for mistakes or things that don’t make sense, which could be signs of a scam.
• Don’t click on links that look sketchy. Don’t click on links in emails or SMS texts unless you are sure they are real. Instead, put the address of the official USPS website by hand into your browser or use a trusted bookmark.
• Scammers are always coming up with new ways to trick people, so people need to stay alert and know about the latest plans. South Africa’s Postal Charge SMS Scam
• Africa and the USPS scam in the US are stark warnings that we need to stay aware and take steps to protect ourselves from becoming victims of these scams. By taking the steps listed above and keeping a good amount of scepticism, we can reduce the chance of falling for these scams.
• It is important to tell your friends, family, and people in your neighbourhood about these scams. By teaching others how to spot fake texts, we can all work together to stop these tricks and cut down on the number of people who fall for them.
• Also, officials and law enforcement agencies need to work together to find and catch the people who are behind these scams. To lessen the financial and mental effects on victims, it’s just as important to get the word out and help them out.
• Keep in mind that the best way to avoid scams is to stay aware and watchful. Be wary of messages you didn’t expect, check the accuracy of communications, and don’t give out personal or financial information until you’ve done so. By being smart and taking these precautions, we can stop scams and keep our hard-earned money and personal information safe.

In conclusion, the growing number of postal charge SMS scams in South Africa and the current USPS scam in the US show how important it is to be more aware and careful. By staying informed and taking precautions, we can stay one step ahead of fraudsters, protect our funds, and make sure that we and our communities don’t fall for these tricks. Stay aware and careful, and tell others to do the same to make the Internet a safer place for everyone.

Father’s Day – Understanding Fathers’ Expectations for Father’s Day

Introduction:

On June 19, we take time to remember and appreciate our dads by celebrating Father’s Day. To best show our appreciation, we must first know what fathers want most on this day. This professional article seeks to explore the inner workings of paternal hopes and dreams by analysing the fundamentals of what makes Father’s Day meaningful. Understanding fathers’ wants and needs allows us to tailor celebrations to them and make them feel special. Based on research, some five  of the desires and expectations of fathers are listed below:

1. Emotional Connection

Despite the significance of material gifts, what fathers genuinely desire on Father’s Day is frequently not material. Fathers desire an emotional bond with their family members. They want to feel valued, cherished, and comprehended by their families. Spending quality time together, engaging in poignant conversations, and displaying genuine affection are priceless gifts that resonate profoundly with the desires of fathers.

• Recognition and Validation:

Frequently, fathers exert considerable time and effort to fulfil their parental responsibilities. On Father’s Day, they seek acknowledgement and approval for their efforts and sacrifices. A simple acknowledgement of their accomplishments and expression of gratitude for their guidance and support can bring fathers immeasurable happiness and satisfaction. Genuine and genuine affirmations of their significance as fathers are of immeasurable value.

• Unwinding and Relaxation:

Fatherhood can be a difficult and demanding endeavour. On Father’s Day, fathers frequently desire a chance to decompress and relax. Creating an environment where they can relax and appreciate their favourite activities is a cherished goal. Whether it’s a quiet day at home, a spa treatment, or engaging in a hobby, giving fathers the opportunity to relax and enjoy leisure is a priceless gift.

• Experiences Shared and Bonding:

Father’s Day is an ideal time to strengthen fathers’ relationships with their offspring. Fathers desire shared experiences and meaningful interactions that nurture connection and produce enduring memories. Fathers experience joy and fulfilment when they participate in activities that align with their interests, such as performing sports, going on outdoor adventures, or even cooking together. These shared experiences allow fathers and their offspring to forge stronger, more enduring bonds.

• Self-Reflection and Care:

Frequently, fatherhood requires putting the requirements of others ahead of one’s own. Fathers value the opportunity for self-reflection and self-care on Father’s Day. A message of love and support is communicated by encouraging fathers to engage in activities that promote their well-being, such as meditation, pursing hobbies, and taking time for personal interests. Providing fathers with the opportunity to focus on self-care allows them to refuel and develop into better versions of themselves.

Conclusion:

Understanding what fathers really want for Father’s Day requires a holistic perspective that transcends material offerings. Fathers desire emotional connections, recognition for their efforts, relaxation and self-care opportunities, shared experiences with their loved ones, and moments of reflection. By recognising and satisfying these desires, we can create Father’s Day celebrations that leave a lasting impression on the hearts of fathers. Let us use this occasion as an opportunity to express our love and appreciation in ways that reflect the desires of fathers, in recognition of their indispensable role in moulding our lives.

Father’s Day – Its origins and celebrations explained

Introduction:

Father’s Day is a special holiday that is marked all over the world to show how important fathers and father figures are in our lives. It gives us a chance to show love, thanks, and respect for the father figures in our lives who have helped shape us. This article by an expert tries to get to the heart of Father’s Day, including its historical roots, how it’s celebrated today, and why it’s important to honour and value parenting.

When it all started:

The first Father’s Day was celebrated in the early 1900s. Sonora Smart Dodd, a loving daughter from Spokane, Washington, is known as the person who made Father’s Day an official holiday. Dodd came up with the idea of honouring fathers in a similar way to how Mother’s Day is celebrated. She wanted to show how much she appreciated all that her father, a veteran of the Civil War, had done for her and her brothers after their mother died.

The first Father’s Day was held in Spokane on June 19, 1910. The idea slowly caught on in the United States, and in 1972, President Richard Nixon signed a proclamation making Father’s Day a national holiday to be marked on the third Sunday in June.

Celebrations of today:

Different people celebrate Father’s Day in different ways, based on their cultural traditions and personal tastes. Families get together to show how much they love and appreciate their dads, stepdads, grandfathers, and other father figures. Most of the time, the celebrations include kind acts, gifts, and spending time with loved ones.

Giving gifts: On Father’s Day, it’s normal to give gifts. Family members often choose gifts for their dads that match his interests, hobbies, or wants. All of these are meant to make dads feel special and loved. They can be anything from personalised items and tools to sentimental gifts or experiences.

Quality Time: One important part of Father’s Day is spending quality time with dads on their special day. This could mean planning family trips, doing things together like sports, fishing, or just eating a meal together. The focus is on making moments that mean something and making the bond between dads and their kids stronger.

Expressing Gratitude: Thank you notes and words of thanks are very important on Father’s Day. Children and other family members take this time to thank their dads for their love, guidance, and support. People often show love and thanks through personalised cards, letters from the heart, or speeches.

How important it is to acknowledge fatherhood:

Fatherhood is a job with many different parts that go beyond genetic ties. It includes loving a child no matter what and being a stable figure in his or her life. Fathers are very important to the social, mental, and physical health of their children. Their advice and help are very important to their children’s growth, sense of self-worth, and general success.

Father’s Day is a good time to remember how important fathers are and how much they do for society. It motivates people to recognise and appreciate the sacrifices, hard work, and unwavering dedication that fathers show every day.

Conclusion:

Father’s Day is a special holiday that gives us a chance to show our dad and other father figures how much they have meant to us. It’s a time to honour the important part dads play in raising and caring for their kids. We can show these strong people our love and respect through kind acts, thoughtful gifts, and quality time. Let’s get into the spirit of Father’s Day not just on June 17 but all year long by recognising and appreciating the important part fathers play in our lives.

What does freedom mean to you?

Ability to do what I want to do , when I want to do it , how I want to do it , where I want to do it – within reasonable normative bounds of course!

12 Gifts of What Moms Actually Want for Mother’s Day

(And It’s Not What You Think)

Mother’s Day is a holiday commemorated on the second Sunday in May each year. Mother’s Day is a celebration honouring mom for all they do for their children and families. On Mother’s Day, it’s important to let moms know how much you appreciate everything she does. Better still if you align your celebration to research that indicate what they really appreciate as good gifts – we discuss 12 of them here .

Historical Background

Ancient Greeks and Romans celebrated mother goddesses Rhea and Cybele with celebrations that foreshadowed modern-day Mother’s Day. Mother’s Day as we know it now did not emerge, however, until the early 20th century. Anna Jarvis led the push for a federally recognised Mother’s Day in the United States so that future generations might celebrate the life of their mothers. In 1914, after years of campaigning, Mother’s Day was declared a federal holiday by the proclamation of President Woodrow Wilson.

Mother’s Day has been widely commemorated ever since that time.

The day on which Mother’s Day is observed may vary from country to country, but the meaning is universal. It’s a day set aside to celebrate and honour all the mothers in the world and the selfless ways they care for their families. Mother’s Day is a time when men may show their appreciation for their spouses and mothers-in-law as much as it is for their own mothers.

It may seem impossible to find something truly special for Mom on Mother’s Day, but it’s not. In recent research, mothers have spoken up about the presents they really want for Mother’s Day, and it turns out that pricey isn’t necessarily better. The smallest details can have the greatest impact at times.

So what do mothers actually want for mother’s day?

1. Mothers need time away from their responsibilities to replenish their batteries. Mothers need time apart from the stresses of parenting and homemaking. The best present you can give your mum is maybe a day off.
2. Gratitude and affection shown in a handmade card from the heart are always appreciated. Mothers appreciate receiving cards that show they were given some time and consideration. It need not be elaborate or costly. Any mother would appreciate even a simple card with a sincere message inside.
3. Gifts that reflect the giver’s thoughtfulness and are specifically designed to appeal to the receiver’s mother are always well received. Your thoughtfulness will be evident in the form of a personalised present. A personalised gift can be anything from a unique piece of jewellery to a handbag with a special initial. For a mother who has lost her hubby honoring their spouse’s memory is an essential part of the healing process. My book “Beyond the Tears 4 a Spouse ” https://a.co/d/6rXiHIE for instance, provides practical and heartfelt advice on how to keep their memory alive.  The options are limitless.
4. In many cases, the most treasured present is simply the opportunity to spend time with loved ones. Mothers value family time because it allows them to connect with their kids and make memories that will last a lifetime. It might be anything from a day at the park to a picnic to a movie night. Mother’s Day can be made more memorable by spending time with loved ones.
5. A clean home is a stress-free home, which is especially beneficial for mothers. Keeping up with the mess that children make and running a family may be exhausting, so moms really value a spotless environment. Even routine tasks like washing the dishes or picking up the living room will help. A Mother’s Day might be brightened with a spotless home.
6. Mothers appreciate being pampered with a massage, pedicure, or facial. Moms can unwind and de-stress with a day at the spa or a therapeutic massage. A chance to unwind and recharge would be greatly appreciated by any mother.
7. Having someone else cook you a great supper is always appreciated. Mothers should not be expected to constantly be in the kitchen cooking for their families. A mother can appreciate a home-cooked meal, especially if it was prepared by someone else.
8. Gift cards – While they may appear impersonal and straightforward, gift cards are a terrific alternative for Mother’s Day. Mothers appreciate gift cards because they can put the money towards whatever they need or want. A gift card to their favourite retailer, eatery, or spa would be perfect. Mothers who receive gift cards might use them to buy themselves a present.
9. The gift of assistance with domestic duties can be both useful and appreciated by mothers. Doing the dishes or taking out the garbage are two examples of low-hanging fruit. Helping mum out around the house is always appreciated and may be a great stress reliever for her.
10. A Mother’s Day can be made just by receiving a considerate gesture, which can be a very little act of kindness. Breakfast in bed or a bouquet of her favourite flowers are both easy ways to show her you care. It demonstrates that you’ve given some thought to what will make her happy.
11. Spending time with friends is something that may take a back seat to a mother’s responsibilities to her children and family. It can be quite appreciated when mothers are given the chance to relax and socialise with other women. It may be anything from a night on the town to a spa day with the gals or even a weekend away.
12. Mothers, more than anybody else, crave acknowledgement and thanks. The nicest present you can give someone is the time you take to recognise and appreciate all they’ve done. A meaningful statement of gratitude or appreciation can be as easy as saying “thank you.” It demonstrates that you appreciate and value their work and input.

To sum up, it is important to take the time to recognise and respect mothers on Mother’s Day. This is an opportunity to express appreciation for all they have done for us. Finding the ideal Mother’s Day present can be difficult, but it need not be costly or lavish. Small, considerate acts can have a profound impact. Mothers have expressed a desire for a day off, handwritten cards, personalised gifts, quality time with family, a tidy home, a spa day, a home-cooked meal, gift cards, assistance with chores, recognition, friendship, and appreciation on Mother’s Day. Show your thanks for all that moms do by giving them a present they’ll truly treasure.

Challenging Tradition: Why Jesus Didn’t Die on Friday

Scholars and theologians have speculated and argued for centuries regarding the chronology of Jesus’ death and resurrection. The theory that Jesus was crucified on Wednesday and rose from the grave on Saturday challenges the traditional belief that Jesus died on a Friday and rose on a Sunday. This theory, advanced by scholars such as John H. Ogwyn in his 2004 article “The Resurrection Was Not on Easter Sunday!” and supported by others, challenges the traditional chronology of events on the basis of evidence from the four Gospels and cultural information from the time.

The mention of the “Day of Preparation” in all four Gospel accounts of Jesus’ death and burial is a crucial piece of evidence cited by proponents of the Wednesday crucifixion theory. The Day of Preparation was the day preceding the Sabbath when Jews prepared food and performed prohibited labour. Jesus was buried on the Day of Preparation, which is mentioned in Matthew 27:62, Mark 15:42, Luke 23:54, and John 19:42, according to the Gospels. On the basis of this information, proponents of the Wednesday crucifixion theory contend that Jesus must have been crucified on a Wednesday so that he could have been buried on the Day of Preparation preceding the Sabbath, which began at sundown on Friday. Read  the article on Why Christians should NOT celebrate Easter!: Unraveling the Origins, Symbols, and Traditions

A Wednesday crucifixion would allow Jesus to have been buried for three full days and nights, as stated in Matthew 12:40, where Jesus said, “For as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of a great fish, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth.” This theory contends that a Friday crucifixion would not allow for three complete days and nights between Jesus’ burial and resurrection, while a Wednesday crucifixion would. ead

In addition, some scholars argue that a Wednesday crucifixion is more consistent with the historical context and New Testament events. For instance, a Wednesday crucifixion would allow the Sanhedrin, the Jewish governing council, time to prepare for Jesus’ arrest and subsequent trials, and would also explain the “silent day” during Passion Week, when no events were recorded. Thursday was likely this “silent day” between Jesus’ crucifixion on Wednesday and his resurrection on Saturday, according to proponents of the Wednesday crucifixion theory.

Notably, this theory is not universally acknowledged, and there are still scholars and theologians who adhere to the traditional belief that Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday. The interpretation of “three days and three nights” as an idiomatic expression rather than a literal timeframe and the absence of explicit mention of a “silent day” in the Gospel accounts are counterarguments against the Wednesday crucifixion theory.

In conclusion, the theory that Jesus did not die on a Friday and did not rise on a Sunday challenges the traditional belief by proposing a Wednesday crucifixion and a Saturday resurrection. This theory is supported by some scholars and theologians and is based on evidence from the Gospels and information about the culture of the time. It is not universally acknowledged, and there are counterarguments. The precise day of the week of Jesus’ death and resurrection may continue to be a subject of debate and interpretation among scholars and believers.

The Feast of Unleavened Bread, also known as Passover, is observed to commemorate the Israelites’ liberation from Egyptian slavery. It occurs on Nisan 15, which could fall on any weekday, and is a High Sabbath preceded by a day of preparation. (Leviticus 23:6, John 19:31).

Historical research and astronomical calculations indicate that Jesus was crucified on Nisan 14, the day preceding the High Sabbath, which could have occurred on a Wednesday or Thursday. This is supported by references in the Gospels to events that occurred after Christ’s crucifixion, such as the women purchasing spices for His interment before the weekly Sabbath. (Luke 23:56).

If Jesus was crucified on a Wednesday or Thursday, it would fulfil His prophecy that He would spend three days and nights in the tomb, just as Jonah did in the entrails of the fish. (Matthew 12:40). This would indicate that Jesus’ resurrection took place on Saturday night or Sunday morning.

It is important to observe that the day of the week on which Jesus was crucified is irrelevant for salvation. The death and resurrection of Jesus Christ for the salvation of humanity remains the fundamental message of Christianity. The belief in Good Friday and the Friday preceding Easter Sunday is not fully supported by the Bible. However, the precise day of the week has no bearing on the central message of Christianity.

Jesus stated explicitly in Matthew 12:40 that he would be in “the heart of the earth” for “three days and three nights,” and I interpret these verses to mean precisely what Jesus said. Only a crucifixion on Thursday provides three days and three nights. In Jewish culture, a day begins at nightfall and ends after the daytime hours of the following day, as opposed to our day, which begins at midnight and ends 24 hours later. This is corroborated by Genesis 1:5, which states that God divided the 24-hour day into night and day.

As Jesus fasted for “forty days and forty nights” in the wilderness after His baptism, Matthew 4:2 provides another example of how a 24-hour day is divided into two portions, day and night. This demonstrates that Jesus used precise language and distinguished between daytime and nocturnal hours. Similarly, when Jesus stated that He would be in the “heart of the earth” for three days and three nights, He was alluding to a period of time that included both daytime and nighttime hours.

A Thursday crucifixion suits the three-day, three-night timeline as follows:

• On Thursday at 3 p.m., Jesus was crucified and died. (Day 1, Nisan 14).
• On Friday, the High Holy Day Sabbath or Feast of Unleavened Bread (Night 1, Nisan 15) and the day Jesus was buried occurred. (Day 2, Nisan 15).
• Saturday: This was the weekly Sabbath (Night 2, Nisan 16) and the day Jesus was entombed. (Day 3, Nisan 16).
• On Sunday, according to Matthew 28:1 and John 20:1, Jesus rose from the grave while it was still nighttime (Night 3, Nisan 17).

In conclusion, a Thursday crucifixion is consistent with Jesus’ statement that he was in the “heart of the earth” for three days and three nights, as well as other references to the number of days in the Gospels of John and Mark. This interpretation is consistent with Jewish culture and the manner in which days were counted during that era.

According to the words of Jesus and the Jewish comprehension of days and nights, there are several reasons why some people believe that Jesus was crucified on Thursday rather than Friday. Jesus said in Matthew 12:40 that He would spend “three days and three nights” in the “heart of the earth,” just as Jonah spent “three days and three nights” in the entrails of the whale. Some interpret this statement to mean precisely three 24-hour periods, which would necessitate a Thursday crucifixion to allow for three days and three nights between the crucifixion and the resurrection on Sunday.

The Jewish day was divided into two parts, night and day, with the day beginning at nightfall and concluding after the daytime hours of the following day, as opposed to the modern conception of a day beginning at midnight. This notion of Jewish days derives from Genesis 1:5, in which God divides light (day) from darkness. (night). In Matthew 4:2 when describing His 40 days and 40 nights in the wilderness, Jesus also referred to a 24-hour day as consisting of both day and night. Some believe that when Jesus said He would be in the “heart of the earth” for three days and three nights, He was referring to two halves of a complete day, and that a Thursday crucifixion would allow for three full days and nights.

On the basis of the preceding comprehension of Jewish days and nights, some interpret the Gospel accounts as supporting a crucifixion on Thursday. According to this view, Jesus was crucified on Thursday (Nisan 14) before sunset, which was the Day of Preparation for both the High Sabbath/Feast of Unleavened Bread (Friday, Nisan 15) and the weekly Sabbath (Saturday, Nisan 17). (Saturday, Nisan 16). Jesus then spent three days and nights in the “heart of the earth” – Thursday, Friday, and Saturday days, and Friday, Saturday, and Sunday nights. (since Jewish days start at sunset and end at the following sunset). Jesus rose from the dead before dawn on Sunday, which marked the end of the third night and the fulfilment of His words from Matthew 12:40.

Alternatively, some believe that a Wednesday crucifixion would account for too many days and nights based on Jesus’ words in Matthew 12:40, as it would result in four days and four nights, which is inconsistent with what Jesus said. Likewise, a crucifixion on Friday would account for too few days and nights, only two days and two nights, which is inconsistent with Jesus’ statement. These differences in the number of days and nights associated with a Wednesday or Friday crucifixion have led some to endorse the theory that Jesus was crucified on Thursday.

The belief in a Thursday crucifixion is supported by the words of Jesus, the comprehension of Jewish days and nights, and the interpretation of Gospel accounts in order to reconcile with Jesus’ statement in Matthew 12:40. It is essential to note, however, that the exact day of the week on which Jesus was crucified is open to interpretation, and scholars and theologians hold differing opinions on the matter.

The statement contends that a Wednesday crucifixion is inconsistent with Jesus’ words in Matthew 12:40 about spending “three days and three nights” in the centre of the earth. According to the proposed timeline, if Jesus was crucified on Wednesday, counting from Wednesday day (1/2 day) to Thursday night and day (1 day), then Friday night and day (1 day), Saturday night and day (1 day), and Sunday night (1/2 day), a total of eight half-days or four days would be accounted for. This would be excessive, as it exceeds the “three days and three nights” specified by Jesus.

Similarly, the statement contends that a Friday crucifixion is incompatible with Jesus’ words because it would account for only two days and two nights. Friday day (half a day), Saturday night and day (one day), and Sunday night (half a day) would only total four half-days or two days, which is insufficient days and nights.

Thursday is the only day that matches precisely with Jesus’ words, according to the assertion. Thursday (afternoon) would be considered Day 1 when Jesus died at 3 p.m., Thursday night would be Night 1 (the High Sabbath), Friday would be Day 2 (the High Sabbath), Saturday night would be Night 2 (the weekly Sabbath), and Saturday would be Day 3. (the weekly Sabbath). Then, Jesus would rise before dawn on Sunday evening, which would be Night 3.

However, it’s important to note that the exact day of the week on which the crucifixion took place is not as significant as the significance of Jesus’ sacrifice and resurrection. The focus should be on Jesus, who was crucified for our sins and rose from the dead, offering forgiveness of sins and eternal life to all who repent and trust in Him, as mentioned in 1 Corinthians 15:1-4. It’s encouraged to study and come to your own conclusion based on the evidence presented.  read about “ Why Christians should NOT celebrate Easter!: Unraveling the Origins, Symbols, and Traditions”  on https://wp.me/p26zIE-4W

Overcoming Resentment, Bitterness, and Anger: A Guide to Emotional Healing

Part 1: Understanding Resentment, Bitterness, and Anger

There are few negative emotions as destructive as resentment, bitterness, and anger. They can disrupt our relationships, cause us to lose our mental and physical health, and keep us from living the abundant life that God has for us.

Resentment is an emotion of wrath or hatred towards a person or thing because of some wrong or injury suffered. A deep and long-lasting animosity that can build and fester over time is what we mean when we talk of bitterness. While anger is normal and v not expressed or managed properly.

A lot of what the Bible teaches can help you deal with these feelings. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the adversary a stronghold, as we are cautioned to do in Ephesians 5:26. (Ephesians 4:26-27). This poem is a powerful reminder of the dangers of letting anger linger and develop if it isn’t dealt with properly. Proverbs 14:30 states, “A heart at peace provides vitality to the body, but jealousy rots the bones” (Proverbs 14:30). This verse emphasises the harmful effects of anger and resentment on one’s mental and physical health.

Anger, resentment, and bitterness can all have their psychological origins in serious wrongs and traumatic experiences. Our minds are hardwired to remember traumatic experiences and guard us against repeat occurrences. But if we don’t deal with and recover from these wounds, they might keep resurfacing and wreaking havoc on our lives. Depression, anxiety, and other mental health problems are all linked to unresolved anger, resentment, and bitterness.

Part 2: Dealing with Resentment, Bitterness, and Anger

So how can we deal with these negative emotions healthily? Here are some practical steps:

How then can we effectively manage these unpleasant emotions? Here are some pragmatic measures:

1. Recognize and accept your feelings. As indicated previously, the first step in overcoming unpleasant emotions is to recognise and accept them as a natural reaction to pain and suffering. Psalms contain examples of psalmists pouring out their hearts to God in prayer and lamentation. For example, David writes, “My spirit is in agony. How much longer, O Lord?” (Psalm 6:3). When we’re battling with unpleasant emotions, we can learn from these examples and turn to God in prayer.
2. Chose forgiveness: Forgiveness is a potent instrument for releasing bad emotions and discovering inner peace. The book of Colossians encourages us to “If you have a grudge against someone, be patient with one another and forgive each other. Forgive like God has forgiven you ” (Colossians 3:13). Not forgetting what occurred, excusing the behaviour, or reconciling with the offender are components of forgiveness. It is the decision to let go of unpleasant feelings and go on with one’s life.
3. Cultivate positive emotions: The Bible advises us to cultivate pleasant feelings such as happiness, thankfulness, and love. Paul writes in Philippians: “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, consider such things” (Philippians 4:8). We can foster pleasant emotions by focusing on the positive aspects of our lives and surrounding ourselves with uplifting individuals.
4. Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness is the discipline of being present and aware of one’s thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations in the present moment. Mindfulness can help you become more conscious of your unpleasant emotions and respond more healthily to them. The book of Romans exhorts us to “be changed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Mindfulness practice can assist to refresh the mind and change unpleasant emotions into positive ones.
5. Seek help if needed: If your negative feelings are overwhelming and interfering with your everyday life, it may be beneficial to seek professional assistance. A therapist or counsellor can assist you in processing and healing from past wounds, developing healthy coping mechanisms, and learning how to control your emotions healthily.

Conclusion:

Resentment, bitterness, and anger are potent negative emotions with a significant impact on our life. They can harm our relationships, negatively impact our mental and physical health, and prevent us from experiencing the fullness of life that God intended for us. By recognising and accepting our feelings, choosing forgiveness, developing positive emotions, practising mindfulness, and getting assistance when necessary, we can learn to manage these unpleasant emotions healthily.

Let us pray:

Dear God, we come to you today with resentment, bitterness, and anger-filled hearts. We seek your assistance in healthily managing these unpleasant emotions. We pray for the bravery to choose forgiveness, the wisdom to foster positive emotions, and the grace to exercise mindfulness. We also want your assistance in locating assistance, if necessary. May your love and serenity flood our hearts and thoughts, and may your regenerating power transform us. All of this is prayed in Jesus’ name, amen.